HostMem: Add mechanism to opt in kvm guest memfd via MachineState

Add a new member "guest_memfd" to memory backends. When it's set
to true, it enables RAM_GUEST_MEMFD in ram_flags, thus private kvm
guest_memfd will be allocated during RAMBlock allocation.

Memory backend's @guest_memfd is wired with @require_guest_memfd
field of MachineState. It avoid looking up the machine in phymem.c.

MachineState::require_guest_memfd is supposed to be set by any VMs
that requires KVM guest memfd as private memory, e.g., TDX VM.

Signed-off-by: Xiaoyao Li <xiaoyao.li@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: David Hildenbrand <david@redhat.com>
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Changes in v4:
 - rename "require_guest_memfd" to "guest_memfd" in struct
   HostMemoryBackend;	(David Hildenbrand)

backends/hostmem.c

@@ -276,6 +276,7 @@ static void host_memory_backend_init(Object *obj)
     /* TODO: convert access to globals to compat properties */
     backend->merge = machine_mem_merge(machine);
     backend->dump = machine_dump_guest_core(machine);
+    backend->guest_memfd = machine_require_guest_memfd(machine);
     backend->reserve = true;
     backend->prealloc_threads = machine->smp.cpus;
 }