Revert "gio, glib: Use G_OS_DARWIN for code that is for such environments"

This reverts commit 476e33c3f3.

We’ve decided to remove `G_OS_DARWIN` in favour of recommending people
use `__APPLE__` instead. As per the discussion on #2802 and linked
issues,
 * Adding a new define shifts the complexity from “which of these
   platform-provided defines do I use” to “which platform-provided
   defines does G_OS_DARWIN use”
 * There should ideally be no cases where a user of GLib has to use
   their own platform-specific code, since GLib should be providing
   appropriate abstractions
 * Providing a single `G_OS_DARWIN` to cover all Apple products (macOS
   and iOS) hides the complexity of what the user is actually testing:
   are they testing for the Mach kernel, the Carbon and/or Cocoa user
   space toolkits, macOS vs iOS vs tvOS, etc

Helps: #2802

gio/gio-querymodules.c

@@ -35,7 +35,7 @@ static gboolean
 is_valid_module_name (const gchar *basename)
 {
 #if !defined(G_OS_WIN32) && !defined(G_WITH_CYGWIN)
-  #if defined(G_OS_DARWIN)
+  #if defined(__APPLE__)
   return g_str_has_prefix (basename, "lib") &&
          (g_str_has_suffix (basename, ".so") ||
           g_str_has_suffix (basename, ".dylib"));