Revert "gio, glib: Use G_OS_DARWIN for code that is for such environments"

This reverts commit 476e33c3f3.

We’ve decided to remove `G_OS_DARWIN` in favour of recommending people
use `__APPLE__` instead. As per the discussion on #2802 and linked
issues,
 * Adding a new define shifts the complexity from “which of these
   platform-provided defines do I use” to “which platform-provided
   defines does G_OS_DARWIN use”
 * There should ideally be no cases where a user of GLib has to use
   their own platform-specific code, since GLib should be providing
   appropriate abstractions
 * Providing a single `G_OS_DARWIN` to cover all Apple products (macOS
   and iOS) hides the complexity of what the user is actually testing:
   are they testing for the Mach kernel, the Carbon and/or Cocoa user
   space toolkits, macOS vs iOS vs tvOS, etc

Helps: #2802

gmodule/gmodule.c

@@ -618,7 +618,7 @@ g_module_open_full (const gchar   *file_name,
          * .dylib and .dll in those cases. */
         prefixes[prefix_idx++] = "";
   #endif
-  #ifdef G_OS_DARWIN
+  #ifdef __APPLE__
       if (!g_str_has_suffix (basename, ".dylib") &&
           !g_str_has_suffix (basename, ".so"))
         {