Add a GObjectPrivate struct and let GObject have private data.
On architectures where we have an alignment gap in GObject struct (64
bit), we use the gap for "optional_flags". Use the private data for
those optional flags, on architectures where we don't have them.
For now, private data is only added for those optional flags (and not on
architectures, where the flags fit inside GObject). In the future, we
may add additional fields there, and add the private struct always.
The main purpose will be to replace all the global locks with per-object
locks, and make "optional_flags" also available on 32bit.